7 Tips That Actually Help Your Twin Flame Relationship

A Twin Flame union is unlike anything you have read about. The myths are busted here and you can relax. You already know the answers. Just breathe.

You’ve heard it all, haven’t you? The stories about Twin Flame unions is one of hardship, separation, and challenges that you’ll ever have, but they say it’s worth it. The universe only knows how to say Yes to you, whatever you think is the dynamic of the Twin Flame relationship will be what you experience. What thoughts about Twin Flames do you want the Universe to be giving you Yes’s to?

“Do you have an idea in mind of how your partner should be? The idea of completion coming from outside of yourself is nonsense. You are already complete when you experience a Twin Flame union.”

You chose your life and not everyone chose to have a Twin Flame union. Some of us chose to have a union and learn that our Twin Flame is non-physical in their work with us. This provides just as deep of a connection as a physical Twin Flame.

Here are 7 ways to make your physical OR non-physical Twin Flame relationship truly evolved.

1. Ask How Their Day Was

This is wonderful if your TF is non-physical because it gives you a chance to see the signs around you. A red car that was her favorite or a series of numbers that happen to be his birthday is “calling cards” that will continually give you confirmation of the power of the spirit.

Asking your physical partner how their day brings out a simple understanding that you care. Your genuine intention is to hear about what wonderful or not so wonderful things may have happened. You hold space for the good and the bad and become a balanced support system for each other by the founding block of the relationship, communication.

2. Learn Your Love Language

If you don’t know your partners love language, you are doing a disservice to your relationship. Knowing how each other likes to give and receive love brings your union to another level. If you have Acts of Service as one of your top love languages but your partner has physical touch as their top, they won’t really love that you did the dishes but if you caress their back and rub their shoulders, it brings out their language. Find the love language of each other and start working on ALL your relationships.

This works for your non-physical TF by opening your thoughts around the barriers of communication. Talk to your non-physical love and ask them to show you how they would like to feel your love. You WILL be surprised by how things start to show up for you.

Plan Future Rendezvous That Are Full of Fun

“Let’s meet in Vegas for three days” or “Let’s go-to Wine Country and spend the weekend locked away just living for each other.” The times when you dedicate spending moments wrapped up in good food, great sex, and intangible love are a recipe for a lasting union. Planning a rendezvous somewhere together for a weekend or mid-week can bring a level to excitement to your TF union. Meet your bae at the airport and change into some sexy lingerie before you get to their car. Make it an adventure and your lover will be more than happy to play along. This is vital for Long Distance Relationships!

For non-physical unions, take yourself somewhere and ask your TF to show up for you through people, messages, and nature. Be open to receiving. As a non-physical union, you have more insight and power on how to channel guidance from the ethereal realm. You chose this path, so really dive into utilizing your power.

Remind Them You Appreciate Their Divinity & Uniqueness

Stop trying to change your partner. Just stop. Don’t talk to your girlfriends about your relationship! See, women and men love to chat with their friends about their significant other. What happens most of the time is: you share an issue, they share their perspective, and then YOU feel worse. Twin Flame unions are about RAW honesty. This is the person you chose to join you in your evolution as a soul. You know deep down you can tell them your fears, your patterns, and what you are thinking. They love you for you, and that includes all of you. The pieces you think are broken, the parts that changed when you were a child, and the being that came here as a conscious creator, is loved more than you could ever know.

Sit and cradle each other, tell each other 3 things you always wanted that you found in this union. Relish in the divinity of the person you chose to spend life with. Your thoughts about love and what you wanted were heard by the universe and it said YES!!!!

Meditate & Take Psychedelics Together

Here is where you find the Highest Self. You can really dive deep into your Twin Flame Union with this simple meditation I’ll give you here.

• Sit comfortably facing your partner or sit back to back. The goal is to connect the heart center. When something happens in the heart, the energy naturally travels to the crown chakra.
• Begin breathing in unison. Listen to a shamanic drumming audio track to get the feeling of the heartbeat. This is what connects the two of you on the deepest level.
• If facing the other, place your hand on their heart and say the Reiki symbols for the Higher Self, Dispelling Fear, and Emotional healing. These will be Di Ko Myo, Zonar, Halu, Shanti, and Sei He Ki. Calling in the names of the symbols works just as well if you are not attuned to the energy of channeling Reiki through your hands. The energy is not subjective to those who are attuned and those who are not. It works for you the way it needs. Reiki is spiritually guided life Force energy. It has no boundaries.

“Psychedelics are illegal because they dissolve opinion structures and culturally laid down models of behaviour and information processing. They open you up to the possibility that everything you know is wrong.” Terence McKenna

The existing paradigm structure we have about relationships is very Piscean. Meaning it’s in its feelings more than Drake. This structure makes us think everything our partner does, says, or mentions are about us in some way. No No No!!! Don’t take ANYTHING personally. That’s the First Agreement. No one does anything for anyone else, we all do things because we think it will make us feel a certain way. The Aquarian Age loves to love and will evolve your relationship to a union, not a battle. Psychedelics can bring you up to your highest form of energy and you will see your Twin Flame as the spirit you chose before you flew in to be in your physical bodies.

You knew this was going to be a fun experience. Earth is a playground in the galaxy. We come to learn and grow and LOVE is what teaches us how to evolve.

Exchange A Yes — No — Maybe List

This is one of the sexiest things you can do for your Twin Flame. A great resource for this is Sexapalooza with its downloadable PDF. Fill this out and send it to your partner for them to fill out also. It will start to change things for the better almost immediately, whether you’ve been together 3 months or 3 years. Once your partner knows what is a “Hell Yes” for you with solo play or partnered play, it’s like knowing the love language, they will be able to love and please you even more! Keep your love life exciting and never ever fall into a routine!

No Judgment — No Expectation

To end on this note is really seeking a union at face value.

“Expectation is the biggest breeder of dissapointment.”

Do not judge your partner. Do not expect your partner. Communication is the only way to make sure you are getting your needs met. As Twin Flames, you knew what this relationship meant. Before we incarnate, we are all in the ethers swirling and dancing. Your Twin Flame is the spirit that has lived beside you in many lifetimes but has not always been your lover. They don’t judge you, they just love you. They see your highest self and they are enamored with how magnificent you are in the physical.

Don’t expect your non-physical TF to show up every day. They will show up for you in the best way needed for your evolution as well as their commitment to being your non-physical companion.

Take a moment to appreciate the Twin Flame dynamic in your life whether it is non-physical, physical, or non-existant. You may have chosen to NOT have a TF union in this life and that’s 100% Okay! Your truth is your truth. If this rings true to you, so it is. If not, move along and find your truth that resonates with your spirit.

Be Brave and Burn Bright.